Temple Illuminatus2024-03-29T11:45:06ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWylandhttps://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/66636336?profile=RESIZE_48X48&width=48&height=48&crop=1%3A1https://templeilluminatus.ning.com/forum/topic/listForContributor?groupUrl=spellbound-a-fetish-group&user=2rpnr3tuhpmal&feed=yes&xn_auth=no15 Real Women on the Embarrassing Sex Moments They Wish They Could Forgettag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2023-03-28:6363372:Topic:36331212023-03-28T01:43:43.664ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<p class="big_first_letter cosg_letter">Sex is inherently embarrassing—sweat, grunts, involuntary (and voluntary) noises, and body parts pressing together (and sometimes, squelching apart!). Sex is also inherently subjective; all of our bodies and minds are unique in their cravings and reactions. Yet, we continue forth in the pursuit of intimacy and orgasms—and hell, in the name of fun!</p>
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<p class="big_first_letter cosg_letter">Sex is inherently embarrassing—sweat, grunts, involuntary (and voluntary) noises, and body parts pressing together (and sometimes, squelching apart!). Sex is also inherently subjective; all of our bodies and minds are unique in their cravings and reactions. Yet, we continue forth in the pursuit of intimacy and orgasms—and hell, in the name of fun!</p>
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<p>Given the complex and kinda risky business of sex, we went in pursuit of real sex-skeletons: stories of sexual bloopers, bumps, and other weird or awkward situations that women have collected in the pursuit of sex-stasy. (Worth it!)</p>
<p>See below for a collection of 15 such stories from real women who were willing to tell all.</p>
<h2><strong>Beyond the Impale</strong></h2>
<p>“I impaled my ex’s dick with my IUD when I didn’t wait the appropriate amount of time to have sex. He got a small red welt and refused to sleep with me for, like, a week after, and for the month after that would constantly be like, ‘I think I feel it.’ It was clearly a phantom trauma thing—I mean, I went to the doctor to check that it had recoiled enough!” –Tammy, 27, New York City</p>
<h2><strong>A Hairy Situation</strong></h2>
<p>“My man has a very full beard, and last week when we were having sex I got trapped in it! As in, pieces of his beard got stuck between my teeth like floss. It took two or three mighty pulls to break free—after which we both died laughing.” –Mina, 33, Santa Barbara</p>
<h2><strong>Next Time</strong></h2>
<p>“During my senior year of college, I had just gotten out of a long relationship and decided to try my hand at casual sex. I woke up one morning horrifically hungover and curiously horny, so I gave this new guy a call to come over. We got down to it and I probably should’ve taken his complete lack of kissing skills as a warning sign, but I like to give people the chance to prove themselves.</p>
<p><span>We started having sex and, my God, it was the absolute worst. There was ZERO foreplay, and it was like he was a jackhammer and I was the sidewalk. To top it off, right before he came, he said, ‘I’m just gonna finish, I’ll get you next time.’ He proceeded to fall asleep in my bed and I was stuck with him for hours. I was almost afraid to have sex again after that because I thought I was doomed to only ever have horrible experiences like that.” –Sydney, 26, Brooklyn</span></p>
<p>“I was dating a friend of a friend, and he asked me not to tell our mutual friend about us having sex before we had even done anything. I’m thinking this tall, skinny fellow is probably packing a pencil, but we got down to business and his pants came off and I had to stop him from moving so as to not put a hole in the ceiling. IT WAS AN ABSOLUTE MONSTER: Nine and a half inches of massive, girthy peen, which I have referred to ever since as ‘cockasaurus rex.’</p>
<p>There wasn’t enough foreplay in the world for my nerves, and his attempt at putting me at ease was hovering over me and saying, ‘Let me know if it hurts, my ex used to cry every time, so I want to be careful.’ I had to act like I wasn’t horrified while he tried to ‘make love’ on top of me while I was cringing and on the verge of death. He came as soon as the head made it about an inch in. This was all panic-inducing, not to mention he will go down in history as the guy who exclaimed, upon seeing me naked, ‘It’s so cute how your thighs touch!’” –Anne, 28, London</p>
<h2><strong>Pillow Tears</strong></h2>
<p>“I was in the early stages of dating my boyfriend, and he was the first man I really liked after one of the most traumatic breakups I’ve ever been through. After a particularly triumphant romp, I broke down crying and let him know I didn’t like him THAT much, and that this wasn’t actually going to work out. To which he responded, ‘Actually, I think you really like me.’ Certainly not my finest hour.” –Margery, 28, New York City</p>
<h2><strong>Let Me Get This Off My Chest</strong></h2>
<p>“One time when I was having very drunk and sloppy sex, I was on top and I threw up all over this guy’s chest! The worst—or best?—part was how unfazed he was. All he did was take his shirt, wipe up the mess, and kept going.” –Jenny, 33, Los Angeles</p>
<h2><strong>Cum Toot</strong></h2>
<p>“One time, I was on top and let out the LOUDEST fart just before my climax. Thankfully, it was late and dark and we were both tired, so I was able to roll over and pretend to be asleep before either of us could address what had just happened. Since, though, I’ve relaxed a bit and have coined the term<span> </span><em>cum toot,</em><span> </span>as it has happened to more than one girl I know. Ladies, relax and let it goooo!” –Vanessa, 30, Santa Monica</p>
<h2><strong>TP Trauma</strong></h2>
<p>“I’ll admit I enjoy some doggie style, however, when you’re in the middle of it and your guy says you have toilet paper stuck between your butt? Not good. I’m pretty sure I died. Definitely no orgasm for me. Now I always make sure I’m clean everywhere before getting busy.” –Cassie, 29, Boston</p>
<h2><strong>Disappearing Act</strong></h2>
<p>“My boyfriend and I were in bed together for the first time, and after amazing sex, he asked me where the condom went. I didn’t know. This was embarrassing, since we had just met. I went into the bathroom to look for it myself with no luck. We fooled around a bit more and he managed to stimulate me while finding the condom inside me and pulling it out. I turned beet-red but was pretty impressed at how gentle he was.” –April, 27, Denver</p>
<h2><strong>Foot Fun</strong></h2>
<p>“On the way home from a first date, my date and I started making out in the cab. Things were getting hot and heavy when suddenly he reached down, flipped off my flats and started cracking my toe knuckles! ‘Do you like that, baby?’ he asked. The truth was, there was only one of us in the car with a foot fetish. That knuckle-cracking action definitely broke the first-date chemistry for me, not to mention gave the cab driver a story for later.” –Marissa, 33, San Francisco</p>
<h2><strong>Red in the Face</strong></h2>
<p>“During one particularly drunk hookup—the kind where you have mere introductions before inviting them home—my new friend went down on me before we both passed out from the booze. In the morning, when he got up to use the bathroom, I heard him gasp and walk back out. “What the hell happened to my face?” he asked. It was covered in blood. I had started my period, and it had dried all over his face. Needless to say, this was not the start of a great love story.” –Madeleine, 35, San Francisco</p>
<h2>Spicy Sex</h2>
<p>“My husband and I were getting busy after dinner a few months ago, when suddenly his fingers started to feel good.<span> </span><em>Really</em> good—I was super tingly and sensitive, and everything was on another level than it usually would be only a few minutes in. Just as quickly as it had started to feel amazing, though, it went south. The sensitive, tingly feeling turned into a burning that turned into a searing pain.</p>
<p>I curled up on the bed while my husband started to panic, and in the chaos we realized: he had made burritos for dinner, which involved dicing fresh jalapeños, and the jalapeño oil was all over his hands, which he then put all over <em>me. </em>We frantically Googled how to fix it, and the best solution was to put full-fat milk or yogurt on the—ahem—affected area, but we didn’t have any dairy in the house. He literally ran to the store at 11pm and brought home four different kinds of yogurt. I spent the night putting it all over my lower half and crying from laughter and pain while he held my hand—after scrubbing them with yogurt and several other jalapeño remedies.” –Roni, 28, New York City</p>
<p>“One Friday night a month or so into dating my boyfriend, we went back to his apartment after drinking and had a typically wild and loud night of sex. He’d mentioned that his brother was coming to visit that weekend, but since I hadn’t met or seen him, I assumed he wasn’t arriving until the next day. Wrong: Turns out that he was out with friends and came back shortly after we did, and slept in the common area outside my boyfriend’s room. I will never forget meeting the brother for the first time, wearing the outfit I’d worn the night before, knowing he’d heard all of my drunken moans. <em>So</em> not the classy first impression I wanted to make!” –Hailey, 29, Brooklyn</p>
<h2><strong>Flush Focus</strong></h2>
<p>“One time during sex, my face got so red and confused-looking that the guy finally stopped to ask me if I was OK. The truth was I was just concentrating a little too hard on orgasming.” –Terry, 28, San Diego</p>
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<h2><strong>A Religious Experience</strong></h2>
<p><strong><span>“I was out at a party with my boyfriend, and after a few drinks, we got a little hot and heavy and realized we couldn’t wait until we got home. We decided that we’d walk a bit and find a spot—luckily for us, we found the perfect place to get down … on the grounds of the National Cathedral. We found a hidden spot and had at it, until we realized that we were definitely being watched. And that our voyeur was very, very appreciative.” –Samantha, 27, Washington, D.C.</span></strong></p>
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<p><strong><span><a href="https://stylecaster.com/weird-embarrassing-sex-stories/">Weird and Embarrassing Sex Stories | StyleCaster</a></span></strong></p> Woman collects 2000 used condoms, displays them on her bedroom walltag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2023-02-20:6363372:Topic:36315872023-02-20T01:36:31.592ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<p><span>DECCAN CHRONICLE | DECCAN CHRONICLE</span></p>
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<div class="storyimg-caption"><p>People all over the world have interesting hobbies of which some can easily be described as bizarre. While sex is something young people take seriously and a lot have fetishes, some weird preferences manage to astonish people every once in a while.</p>
<p>Although condoms are important in an age when the emphasis on safe sex is greater than ever, a 27-year-old woman from Norway took things to another level by collecting thousands of used condoms. The woman has displayed her collection of 2000 condoms on her bedroom wall for everyone to see.</p>
<p>Tonje started collecting condoms in 2010 when she asked her boyfriend to keep the condom he had just used because of the smell. Her boyfriend found it nasty and broke up after some time when the woman asked drunk friends who had sex in her bed to leave their used condom as well.</p>
<p>This was just the beginning as Tonje went on to collect thousands of condoms including many she ended up paying up to $75 for. There are also condoms on the wall which are accompanied by pictures of the donor, for which she shells out $10.</p>
<p>Meanwhile Tonje has no plans of stopping for a while since she seeks to take her collection past 10,000. She is also getting some help from her father who has asked his friends to donate their love gloves to his daughter as well.</p>
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</div> MAKING A SCENE: ROLEPLAY FETISHES AND YOUtag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2023-01-25:6363372:Topic:36309782023-01-25T03:20:42.951ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
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<p><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/animal-tails">Roleplay</a><span> </span>is great way to spice up any relationship by bringing a new dynamic to the bedroom. You can try anything you can think of, and commit to it only as much as you’re comfortable with. For some, one particular style of roleplay will become a favourite, and often be engaged in…</p>
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<p><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/animal-tails">Roleplay</a><span> </span>is great way to spice up any relationship by bringing a new dynamic to the bedroom. You can try anything you can think of, and commit to it only as much as you’re comfortable with. For some, one particular style of roleplay will become a favourite, and often be engaged in regularly. This is where it becomes a fetish. The word fetish tends to get a bit of a bad rep, generally being associated with things like leather, latex, whips or<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/petplay-bdsm-and-bondage">bondage</a>. Ultimately though, a fetish is just something you enjoy in a sexual way. If you enjoy it, then who cares what anybody else thinks?</p>
<h2><span>TRADITIONAL ROLEPLAY FETISHES</span></h2>
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<p>These scenarios are all on the tamer end of the spectrum, and are a great way to start out with roleplay. If you enjoy one of these scenarios, you can amp it up over time, incorporating more and more<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/collars">objects or techniques</a><span> </span>into your scenarios. Common roleplay fetishes include:</p>
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<li><span>Doctor or nurse/patient</span></li>
<li><span>Criminal/policeman or prison guard</span></li>
<li><span>Meeting strangers</span></li>
<li><span>Handymen or handywomen</span></li>
<li><span>Secretary/businessman</span></li>
<li><span>Stripper/client</span></li>
<li><span>Teacher/student</span></li>
<li><span>Pirate/captive or wench.</span></li>
<li><span>Photographer/model</span></li>
<li><span>Specific clothing (usually uniforms)</span></li>
<li><span>Celebrity or role-model roleplay</span></li>
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<div class="blog__article"><div class="blog__article__content rte"><p>The list can go on and on. Basically, any situation with two or more people, usually<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/dress-up-fetish">wearing outfits</a><span> </span>that one of you find attractive, can build from a sexual fantasy into a fetish. You can enjoy these scenarios as often as you want, as long as it remains healthy and doesn’t become an obsession.</p>
<p>Once you’ve chosen your<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/animal-transformation-fetish">roleplay theme</a>, it’s entirely up to you how far you take it. It could be as simple as just pretending in your own bedroom, or as complex as booking a hotel room and taking outfits with you to “meet for the first time”.</p>
<h2><span>UNUSUAL ROLEPLAY FETISHES</span></h2>
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<p>I list these as unusual simply because they just aren’t talked about as much. There is nothing wrong with engaging in any kind of sexual acts as long as they are safe and consensual. Scenarios can include:</p>
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<li><span>Slave/Master</span></li>
<li><span>Captive/Torturer</span></li>
<li><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/animal-tails"><span>Animal/Owner or handler</span></a></li>
<li><span>Gender reversal</span></li>
<li><span>Ageplay</span></li>
<li><span>Inanimate object roleplay, where one partner is a piece of clothing or furniture or even a sex-doll</span></li>
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<p>Scenarios in this category tend to be a bit more advanced and often incorporating many toys or<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/types-of-bdsm">aspects of BDSM</a>. One common type of sex toy used during roleplay scenes is a tail butt plug. These come in many different designs, such as<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/fox-tails">fox tails</a>,<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/collections/cat-tails">cat tails</a><span> </span>and even bunny tails and horse tails.</p>
<p><span>If you and your partner decide to engage in some of the more hard-core elements is of roleplay, it’s important to have a frank and open discussion ahead of time. This can include written contracts, no go areas, and should almost always have a safe word. It is important for each partner to trust each other fully, and if the safe word is said to stop immediately. Without trust, roleplay can never really work.</span></p>
<h2><span>WHEN DOES A FETISH BECOME TOO MUCH?</span></h2>
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<p>Fetishes can be a perfectly healthy part of the human mind to explore. In fact, engaging in some of your more<span> </span><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/furry-fetish">suppressed desires</a><span> </span>can help maintain a healthy balance in other parts of your life. You need to be cautious though.</p>
<p><a href="https://loveplugs.co/blogs/news/cow-livestock-play">Too frequently indulging in roleplay fetishes</a><span> </span>can make it difficult to differentiate between the parts of the roleplay and parts of real life. If you feel at any point that you are beginning to lose control, it’s important to talk to someone. Your local doctor will be able to put you in touch with the appropriate professionals.</p>
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<p class="clearfix"></p> 10 Bizarrely Hilarious Fetishestag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2022-09-13:6363372:Topic:36277932022-09-13T01:45:54.119ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<h2>Macrophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>To macrophiles, there is nothing sexier than a woman with a cavernous vagina…that is, as long as the rest of her is massive enough to match. While sex can seem a little preposterous with someone that stands fifty feet tall or larger, macrophilia is all about imagination, so just because the sex seems like a problem doesn't mean the fetishist hasn't imagined a way to please their hypothetical partner.…</p>
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<h2>Macrophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>To macrophiles, there is nothing sexier than a woman with a cavernous vagina…that is, as long as the rest of her is massive enough to match. While sex can seem a little preposterous with someone that stands fifty feet tall or larger, macrophilia is all about imagination, so just because the sex seems like a problem doesn't mean the fetishist hasn't imagined a way to please their hypothetical partner. Consequently, the magic of video editing has allowed many an industrious pornographer to satisfy this very specific set and there are tons of giant fetish videos across the net.<br/>If you're curious, there is a fetish that serves those interested in the complete opposite, known as microphilia. In this fantasy, the object of desire (or the fetishist themselves) is tiny as opposed to huge. For some reason this one just isn't as popular as the giant fetish though.</p>
<h2>Spectrophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>When you first learn about specter fetishists, you may imagine a few people who have seen the movie Ghost too many times and now think of Patrick Swayze as a sexy supernatural porn star. Really though, this fetish has gone on throughout the centuries.<br/>While history is dotted with many stories of being raped by demons, there are just as many romantic tales involving sensitive spirit lovers. While spectrophiles can always use their imagination for self satisfaction, most people who have this fetish really do believe they have had a sexual encounter with a ghost in the past. On the bright side, most people who experience this phenomenon claim the ghost follows them throughout their lives, so they never seem to have to wait too long before getting some.</p>
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<h2>Exophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>Plenty of people have a soft spot in their heart for men and women from exotic lands, but Exophiles save their emotions for people from exotic planets. That's right, these men and women have a sexual fascination revolving around aliens, meaning that X-Files, Star Trek, Star Wars and Babylon 5 are all bigger turn ons for them than anything you'd find in your local adult video store.<br/>Unlike spetrophiles, most exophiles don't claim to have had experience with alien life forms, but they do find the experience to be intriguing, which is why there are a plethora of alien sex fetish websites online to help inspire arousal for these people. Of all the sick fetishes on the net, these sites just might have the most amusing photo galleries out there.</p>
<h2>Flatulophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>Everyone knows someone who never grew out of the old “farts are funny” phase that usually ends by the time high school starts, but sometimes this love of flatulence develops into less of a joke and more of a turn on. For these fetishists, a Dutch oven isn't a punishment or annoyance, but foreplay.</p>
<h2>Agalmatophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>There are plenty of people who want to enter the Statue of Liberty out of a sense of patriotism, but many agalmatophilies have the overwhelming urge to simply see what she has on under those robes. Of course, agalmatophilia isn't limited to just statue fetishists, but extends to all inanimate objects depicting humans, such as dolls and mannequins. While they may actually have sex with the object, the fetish is often much more about imagination than reality, which makes Lars and The Real Girl a perfect movie for anyone wanting to better understand agalmatophiles.</p>
<h2>Sploshing and Sitophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>Most people think food fights are just a waste of food, but sploshers and sitophiles find them simply titillating. As it turns out, there are a lot of people all over the world who find it intensely stimulating to be covered in wet, messy, food substances. While these fetishes might be messy, they're otherwise fairly harmless and a lot more innocent than many other sexual obsessions found on the net.<br/>While the two fetishes have a lot of crossover with one another, they are not completely the same. Sitophiles are turned on by food, but this can be through consumption, direct sexual contact with the food or simply by rolling around in it. Sploshers love being wet and messy and while the most common substances involved in the fetish tend to be edible, some sploshers like mud, oil and paint in place of pies, pudding and syrup.</p>
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<h2>Hierophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>If you've ever wondered what kind of a sicko would ever consider using the classic “Jackhammer Jesus” sex toy, then you certainly aren't a hierophile. While most people think that religious fetishes are the epitome of blasphemy, the reality is that most of these people are actually incredibly religious and completely dedicated to their selected belief system. They are so infatuated with religion that they cross the line between loving their sacred icons and making love to these icons.</p>
<h2>Smoking Fetishism</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>The term “cock smoker” takes on a whole new meaning when you actually catch a glance of a smoking fetish website. For some, the smoking simply signifies a desired characteristic in the partner, such as rebelliousness, masculinity or self confidence, but for others the fetish really is all about the cigarette itself –the smell, the burning cherry, the loose ashes and the smoke emissions. These are the really interesting smoking fetishes because they often involve the use of the cigarette during sex, even oral sex, with the cigarette remaining dangerously close to the genitals.</p>
<h2>Kleptolagnia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>If you've ever gotten turned on while listening to Jane's Addiction's “Been Caught Stealing,” you just might be a kleptolagniac. These theft fetishists not only enjoy stealing, but are sexually excited by the act of taking things that are not theirs. It seems they could have a really good time stealing sex toys, which could then be used in further fantasies about similar great heists.</p>
<h2>Trichophilia</h2>
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<div class="item-description"><p>Who doesn't love a beautiful head of hair? Of course, for trichophiles, the hair obsession can go beyond wanting to touch and look at shiny locks to wanting to caress and kiss the tresses. While the fetish can extend to body hair, most trichophiles love hair on people's heads and would make excellent, yet creepy, hairstylists. Now that you know about hair fetishists, that famed scene from Something About Mary can take on a whole new meaning whenever you watch the movie in the future.<br/>A closely related but distinctly different fetish is a fur fetishism, which can revolve around a person wearing a fur coat or may be focused on just the fur itself. While PETA protesters like to throw red paint on fur coats, these fur lovers like to ruin the material with an entirely different liquid.</p>
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</div> What Do You Say to a Naked Lady?tag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2022-04-25:6363372:Topic:36235522022-04-25T20:42:47.170ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<p><span>From Candid Cameraman Allen Funt comes a hysterical feature films that tells and shows all. Witness America's response to one of the most titillating stunts of all time in this hilarious expose of sex and society</span></p>
<p><span><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0066559/?msclkid=0e804018c4d711ec81c6baac496d37f7">What Do You Say to a Naked Lady? (1970) - IMDb</a></span></p>
<p><span>Release Date: February 18, 1970 (USA)…</span></p>
<p><span>From Candid Cameraman Allen Funt comes a hysterical feature films that tells and shows all. Witness America's response to one of the most titillating stunts of all time in this hilarious expose of sex and society</span></p>
<p><span><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0066559/?msclkid=0e804018c4d711ec81c6baac496d37f7">What Do You Say to a Naked Lady? (1970) - IMDb</a></span></p>
<p><span>Release Date: February 18, 1970 (USA)</span></p>
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</ul> The Adult Baby Lifestyle Is More Complex Than You'd Think + Things You Maybe Didn't Want To Knowtag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2020-12-21:6363372:Topic:35537362020-12-21T22:19:32.293ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<div class="description_main__2ttQM description_-full__5ywNB"><div><p style="text-align: center;"><span>When you think about the phrase "adult baby," what flashes through your head? Facts about adult babies describe a misunderstood community. What does it mean to be an adult baby? What are they into, aside from the obvious? And is there a reason why fetishes like this crop up?</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span>The things you didn't know about adult babies could fit in a ten-gallon diaper. The members of this world live a normal life outside of acting like babies, and the things that attract them to being infantilized are likely totally different than what you might expect. At the end of the day, adult babies are just people - albeit people with a unique perspective on the world.</span></p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-excess/201310/childs-play" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) community</a> is a wide and varied group of people who enjoy a plethora of activities related to diapers, and being treated as a child. Some of them role play as babies, while other members of the community are<span> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tykables-adult-baby-storefront_us_58d127f7e4b0be71dcf7e9ba" target="_blank" rel="noopener">simply comforted</a><span> </span>by clothing and items related to infancy.</p>
<p>The one thing adult babies are not interested in is sexual contact with children or babies - a common misconception of the fetish.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>Not everyone who roleplays as a baby wants to be called an "adult baby." In some cases, the term carries a negative connotation. Many members of the ABDL scene<span> </span><a href="https://www.adisc.org/forum/showthread.php/73552-I-am-a-quot-Little-quot-not-an-adult-baby!-New-Definitions" target="_blank" rel="noopener">prefer to be referred to</a><span> </span>as a "little," the submissive partner of an ABDL relationship.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p><a href="http://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2015/5/27/psychological-characteristics-of-the-adult-babydiaper-lover-fetish-community" target="_blank" rel="noopener">What causes someone to become an adult baby</a>? No one knows for sure. Some people believe that imprinting causes infantilism; a mother putting diapers on a child creates associations between humiliation and sexuality. Another theory is that being an adult baby is an identity disorder that's based on the self rather than a partner.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>Where do you to find diapers made for adult babies? You can shop online, but if you live near Chicago, IL, you can go to Tykables,<span> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tykables-adult-baby-storefront_us_58d127f7e4b0be71dcf7e9ba" target="_blank" rel="noopener">the country's only physical store</a> for adult babies and diaper lovers. John-Michael Williams, the store's owner, says that Tykables caters to more than just adult babies:</p>
<blockquote><p>We also have a lot of people who are incontinent or require, physically, to wear diapers, and who prefer our style and branding. And then the third category includes people on the autistic spectrum. They prefer our products over some of the medical products because we don’t focus on the medical aspect - we actually help them remove some of that stigma that’s associated with these products.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>Like any fetish, being an adult baby involves gratification. John-Michael Williams, owner of Tykables, broke down what littles enjoy about the ABDL scene for the<span> </span><span class="edS-i">Huffington Post</span>:</p>
<blockquote><p>They are aroused... either through role play or from the product itself - the sound, texture or feeling. Or, for some people,<span> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tykables-adult-baby-storefront_us_58d127f7e4b0be71dcf7e9ba" target="_blank" rel="noopener">there’s a humiliation aspect</a>. It could be any one of those things, or something else I haven’t mentioned. It’s a really individual thing. It has nothing to do with actual children. The gratification comes from the objects or the role play and the persons themselves 'being' the child.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>Jess, an adult baby living in Lakeland, FL, spoke to the<span> </span><span class="edS-i">New York Post</span><span> </span>about her life role playing with her boyfriend as<span> </span><a href="http://nypost.com/2016/07/29/this-woman-is-an-adult-baby/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a baby and daddy</a>. According to her, it helps her get over her childhood as a survivor of sexual abuse:</p>
<blockquote><p>For us, it is more about enjoying the dominant/submissive dynamic in our everyday lives. I enjoy the feeling of David being a protector and a person that I can depend on to look after me and he likes feeling needed.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>A writer for<span> </span><span class="edS-i">Vice</span><span> </span>went to Adult Baby Club,<span> </span><a href="https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/london-adult-baby-party-305" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a monthly party</a> hosted in a basement behind London's King's Cross station. It's advertised as a "safe place for ABs, DLs, their daddies, mummies, and friends to play." Adult Baby Club has been going on for years, inviting ABDLs in to play catch, chase each other around in rompers, and dance. There's also a bar that serves breast milk.</p>
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<blockquote><p><a href="https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/london-adult-baby-party-305" target="_blank" rel="noopener">There's no bigger turn-on than sh*tting yourself in public</a>. I love putting on a nappy, going down the supermarket, and sh*tting myself in front of everyone... It's the humiliation I like. I reckon most people are into it, if they're honest. Sh*tting themselves.</p>
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<div class="richText_container__3svV2 blogItem_textContainer__1R7tr"><p>Let's say you're an adult baby, and you need someone to watch you for the evening. Who do you call? It can be tedious to find a baby sitter for an adult, and if the sitter isn't adept at taking care of littles, then you might end up in a whole heap of trouble. Luckily, there's<span> </span><a href="http://littleab.com/ABcare/babysitter.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">a directory of sitters</a><span> </span>for adult babies, and even if you can't find an in-person baby sitter, there are "phone mommies" who charge per minute.</p>
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<p>Mummy Maxine claims that a third of her clients are men under 25 years old, and that there's no sexual activity allowed. She explained the nursery to<span> </span><span class="edS-i">The Mirror</span>:</p>
<p>We get people from all walks of life. We get same-sex couples, male and female couples. I even have one client whose personal assistant makes the /ointments for him, he’s very successful and has a lot of people work under him -<span> </span><a href="http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/inside-adult-baby-fetish-nursery-5100351" target="_blank" rel="noopener">so it helps him relax</a>.</p>
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<p><span>I stumbled upon the baby section of a department store the other day, and I have to admit that sometimes I wish I could go back to those days when I did nothing but sleep and eat all day – well, I don’t remember that time, but I think that’s how it went. Just browsing around the aisles made me squeal inside with the irresistible cuteness of all the baby products, like the cartoon onesies, jumpers, and the tiny pacifiers that help babies relax. Nonetheless, I have no desire to walk around wearing a diaper again, which is why I was so surprised to come across an adult-sized diaper on display. “What kind of baby would wear these?,” I asked myself out loud, and the sales associate who happened to walk by said “adult babies.”</span></p>
<p><span>Living as an adult baby is a lifestyle that takes on many forms (and sometimes fetishes), depending on the person who lives it. The people who enjoy this way of life are called many names, but one name describes them the best: Adult Baby Diaper Lovers (ABDL). Not all adult babies behave like babies, but many love doing so. They buy customized "baby" furniture that is appropriate to their size, drink from a bottle, and enjoy the softness and comfort of diapers. Many others think of this age regression as a sexual act that can turn into a role-playing activity with their partner. These activities are usually safe, and they shouldn’t be stigmatized because they’re just a lifestyle decision, like many others. Wouldn’t you like to go back to that time where your only problems were waiting until someone changed your diaper? </span></p>
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<p><span>Quitting your job and redecorating your room with pastel colors and gigantic baby furniture sounds like an impossible thing to do, but it’s actually doable. Proof of this is 23-year-old Youtuber Jess, also known as Binkie Princess, an adult baby who has fulfilled her fantasy of living as a baby with everything that comes with it, and she shares it all on her channel. She crawls, plays with colorful toys, and wears a onesie and diaper every day. She shows viewers around her room (nursery) and shows off her new acquisitions, like her gigantic white crib. Although her boyfriend is not into her way of life, he seems to support her and accept her choices. Here’s a video of her explaining her lifestyle.</span></p>
<p><span>Both Hart and Jess say they're not interested in the sexual role-playing that is sometimes associated with adult babies. Their lifestyle is glamorized through their social media accounts, and they seem to be getting lots of support from many followers. They are part of a growing community that doesn't feel ashamed about sharing their photographs online. They are obviously aware of their age and know the difference between being an adult and being a baby. Yet, they choose to experience this way of life because it makes them feel happy and satisfied. The question is, are they going to do it forever? </span></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 8pt;"><em><a href="https://www.ranker.com/list/facts-about-adult-babies/jacob-shelton" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://www.ranker.com/list/facts-about-adult-babies/jacob-shelton</a></em></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 8pt;"><em><a href="https://culturacolectiva.com/lifestyle/adult-baby-syndrome" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://culturacolectiva.com/lifestyle/adult-baby-syndrome</a></em></span></p>
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</div> Eating, Gaining Weight, or Being Fedtag:templeilluminatus.ning.com,2020-11-11:6363372:Topic:35503202020-11-11T22:24:11.153ZCarmen Elsa Irarragorri Wylandhttps://templeilluminatus.ning.com/profile/CarmenElsaIrarragorriWyland
<p>“If I offered you a million dollars if you could have an orgasm in the next 60 seconds,” said the psychologist to the woman, “what would you do or fantasize about in order to achieve that orgasm as quickly as possible?”</p>
<p>“I would use my vibrator and probably run the other hand over the thicker parts of my stomach and sides,” replied the woman. “I would likely imagine being fatter than I am, with [someone] telling me how fat I had gotten and how much bigger he was going to make…</p>
<p>“If I offered you a million dollars if you could have an orgasm in the next 60 seconds,” said the psychologist to the woman, “what would you do or fantasize about in order to achieve that orgasm as quickly as possible?”</p>
<p>“I would use my vibrator and probably run the other hand over the thicker parts of my stomach and sides,” replied the woman. “I would likely imagine being fatter than I am, with [someone] telling me how fat I had gotten and how much bigger he was going to make me.”</p>
<p>The foregoing exchange, an email correspondence between the researchers Lesley Terry and Paul Vasey, of the University of Lethbridge, and their subject, a thirty-year-old woman named “Lisa,” comes from<span> </span><a href="http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-009-9580-9">a 2011 article on eroticized corpulence</a><span> </span>in<span> </span><em>Archives of Sexual Behavior</em>. The authors had stumbled upon this curious case of female “feederism”—a bustling fetish subculture in which one’s most intense sexual pleasure involves eating, gaining weight, or being fed—after inviting members of the website<span> </span><em><a href="http://fantasyfeeder.com/cms/index.php">FantasyFeeder.com</a></em><span> </span>to participate in their study of fat fetishism. Lisa, who was in fact just as mystified about her lifelong, carnal attraction to obesity as were the investigators, agreed to serve as their main case study.</p>
<p>And lifelong (or nearly so) her desires were. “She experienced erotic thoughts about weight gain and fat from a very early age,” write the investigators:</p>
<p><em>When she was approximately 7 or 8 years old, she became fascinated with larger people and would pretend her Barbie dolls were gaining weight. When she was 13 years old, she had a dream of a fat woman wearing a crop top (i.e., a t-shirt or blouse with the lower portion cut off, resulting in the exposure of some of the wearer’s abdomen) dancing, and she experienced her first orgasm in her sleep.</em></p>
<p>Technically, Lisa displayed characteristics of both “feeder” (those who become sexually aroused by feeding their partners and encouraging them to gain weight, sometimes to a state of immobility) and “feedee” (individuals who are erotically aroused by their own weight gain or being forced to eat). What’s especially interesting about her case, however, is the fact that she wasn’t terribly heavy herself. Only a tad overweight, she had a<span> </span><a href="https://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=can-you-be-overweight-still-be-healthy">relatively average Body Mass Index<span> </span></a>(23.1), exercised for about an hour a day 4-5 times per week, and had never been teased for being overweight. She was an intelligent, articulate woman without any history of mental health problems; she was college-educated, happily married, and employed in a management-level position.</p>
<p>Despite an intensely erotic period in her twenties when, sowing her wild oats, she’d gone on a four-month diet of burgers, bacon, pastries, donuts, pizza, cookie dough, and up to 11 milk shakes a day, Lisa had no intention of allowing herself to become morbidly obese or practicing the feederism lifestyle. Although she saw her gluttonous experience of purposeful weight gain as “very sexually arousing,” nearly climaxing upon stepping on the scale (“the arousing part was finding out how much I had gained and, after a certain weight, knowing that I was bigger than ever before”), she stayed in the closet about the nature of her lust.</p>
<p>The reasons for this tension between her desires and her real life were twofold. First, the authors explain, “Lisa had never been in a feedee/feeder relationship because she did not want to deal with<span> </span><a href="https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/2012/12/25/early-childhood-obesity-rates-might-be-slowing-nation-wide/">the negative health consequences</a><span> </span>of becoming extremely overweight.” One of the reasons she abandoned her obscenely decadent diet was that she began to feel lethargic, realizing the toll it was taking and the potentially enormous longterm damage that she was inflicting on her body. “Moreover, she wanted to conceal her sexuality from others and she felt that being in [such a] relationship would make concealment more challenging.”</p>
<p>Nevertheless, she was still a very active member of the online feederism community, taking her greatest pleasure in adult websites featuring images of the same female model progressively gaining weight. “Lisa reported that she looked at these types of pictures several times a week while she masturbated,” the authors tell us. She reported that, while she enjoyed sex with her husband, she could only ever<span> </span><a href="https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/bering-in-mind/2009/12/01/reopening-the-case-of-the-female-orgasm/">achieve a clitoral orgasm</a><span> </span>by thinking about fat-related things during intercourse. When asked about her steamiest fantasies, Lisa described them as follows:</p>
<p><em>Gaining weight and being made fun of for gaining weight … being called names like fatty or pig, or someone pointing out how big I am or how much weight I had gained, drawing attention to or describing different body parts, for example, “look how flabby your belly is getting” … I enjoy the sensation of being “stuffed,” but part of that arousal is knowing that it will lead to weight gain later. The power dynamic in force-feeding is appealing to me …. I am aroused by the idea of being under the control of someone who wants me fatter.</em></p>
<p>This not-so-subtle power dynamic suggests that feederism is a variant of <a href="http://www.sexarchive.info/BIB/SM.htm">more “traditional” sadomasochism</a>. And although it’s certainly not hard to find a committed dominatrix, sexologists point out that women are far less likely to derive erotic pleasure from being the “S” than they are in being the “M” in the coupling. There’s a small gay male contingency in feederism, Terry and Vasey point out, but this fat fetish couture is overwhelmingly a heterosexual affair: men are the feeders and women, the feedees.</p>
<p>In addition to the sadomasochistic interpretation, the authors speculate about a number of more idiosyncractic, psychoanalytic reasons for Lisa’s unusual sexuality. Could it be related to her mother’s strict control over her diet as a teenager? Freudian fixation in the oral stage of infancy? A psychological defense in which she’s escaped society’s unrealistic expectations and ideals surrounding women and weight?</p>
<p>In the end, we’re left with more questions than answers. As was Lisa, for that matter. “When we asked her why her sexuality was characterized by feederism,” the authors write toward the end of their report, “she said, ‘I am honestly not sure.’”</p>
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<p><span>Are you in a <a href="https://www.foxnews.com/category/lifestyle/relationships" rel="noopener" target="_blank">relationship</a>? Then one of you is probably hiding a sexual kink from your partner, the results of a new survey…</span></p>
<p><span>By </span><span><a href="https://www.foxnews.com/person/b/michael-bartiromo">Michael Bartiromo</a><span class="article-source"><a href="http://www.foxnews.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"> | Fox News</a></span></span></p>
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<p><span>Are you in a <a href="https://www.foxnews.com/category/lifestyle/relationships" target="_blank" rel="noopener">relationship</a>? Then one of you is probably hiding a sexual kink from your partner, the results of a new survey suggest.</span></p>
<p><span>The survey, which polled 2,000 Americans on their sexual habits and preferences, had found that more than 49 percent of respondents – across all relationship statuses – say they “currently have a sexual act” they’d like to try with a partner, but haven’t.</span></p>
<p><span>Of those, nearly 40 percent said they’re keeping it a secret because they were worried their partner will judge them, while 40 percent also feel that if their partner knew, it might “end the relationship,” according to results published in SWNS.</span></p>
<p>The survey, conducted by OnePoll and commissioned by lingerie company Thistle and Spire, polled both single and non-single folks, including singles who were not currently dating; singles who were dating casually; people in monogamous relationships; married people in monogamous relationships; and people in open marriages.</p>
<p>The poll didn’t ask which secret fetishes, specifically, that nearly half of the respondents were too shy to talk about, although most were comfortable discussing the things they had already tried to spice up their sex lives. Among the most common ideas were incorporating lingerie (36.49 percent had tried it), “sexting” each other during the day (33.35 percent), trying a new position (32.59 percent) and having sex outside of the bedroom (32 percent). Less popular options included having an orgy or a threesome (11.04 percent), seeing a sex therapist (10.72 percent), establishing an open relationship (10.67 percent) and going to a “sex/kink party” (10.61 percent).</p>
<p><span>The results further suggested that open communication might actually be the key to better sex. At least 90 percent of those surveyed said that being comfortable in expressing your needs and desires – and knowing what you want out of sex – will make the experience more enjoyable. About the same percentage felt that being more comfortable in your own skin leads to better sex, as well.</span></p>
<p><span>But it’s not just about communicating what you want out of sex — it’s about what you’re getting out of it. Only about 25 percent of those surveyed said they were “very” comfortable letting a partner know when they were unsatisfied in bed, with an additional 49 percent being only “somewhat” comfortable. It may come as no surprise, then, that the average respondent claimed to fake an orgasm around 25 percent of the time.</span></p>
<p><span>“At Thistle and Spire, we believe that speaking up for oneself and one’s pleasure is important,” said Maggie Bacon, the lingerie company’s founder and CEO, of the study results, per SWNS. “We support the idea that confidence in the bedroom leads to confidence in other areas of one’s life.”</span></p>
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<div class="author-text"><p>When you think of a person who'd be into kinky sex, I'm the last person you'd imagine. I'm a mom of two (with the stretch marks to prove it) who's been happily married for nearly 20 years. I volunteer at the school, work part-time in a suit-and-tie environment, and am in bed by 10 most nights. I'm basically as far from the dominatrix stereotype as possible. And yet many nights that's exactly what I'm doing with my husband. People would be shocked if they knew what goes on in my house at night-which is half the fun of doing it. (Related:<span> </span><a href="https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/beginners-guide-bdsm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Beginner's Guide to BDSM</a>)</p>
<p>The first thing you see when you walk in my bedroom is our sex harness, hanging from the ceiling. (We tell the kids it's a "swing" and so far they haven't questioned it.) It's a new-ish acquisition for us as we've been slowly building up our repertoire of kink and fetish toys over the years. And I'll be honest: Most of them look pretty scary at first glance, especially the ones that use electrical shocks.</p>
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<p>But our BDSM sex life is anything but scary. In fact, I'd say it saved our marriage.</p>
<p>My husband and I were college sweethearts. We fell in love hard and fast and got married before we even graduated. Whether because we moved too fast or were too young, just a few years into our marriage we were fighting constantly and on the brink of divorce. And it probably goes without saying that our sex life was nil. Eventually, I had an affair. He found out about it, of course. And I didn't care about my marriage enough at that point to try to keep it much of a secret. But I did feel really bad when I saw how hurt he was. We were at a crossroads: We either had to go our separate ways or try to repair our marriage. We decided to give our relationship one last chance. For me, that started with getting our sex life back on track.</p>
<p>I realized I'd loved the thrill of cheating more than I'd loved the person I'd cheated with. So we started by experimenting with role play a little (I'm a sucker for costumes). And that play led to some frank talks about the different things we desired, one of which was my husband's interest in BDSM. I didn't know much about it at the time-this was before<span> </span><em>50 Shades of Grey</em><span> </span>was popular and made it easier to talk about-so I was understandably nervous. But once we started trying it together, role-playing his fantasies, I quickly realized how fun, exciting, and even empowering it felt.</p>
<p>As we got more into the kink scene we spent more time researching different methods, toys, and scenarios. We learned what we liked and what we didn't, and it really helped me especially to become more in tune with what turns me on. For instance, I'm into electric wands but not whips, ropes but not handcuffs, and I still love costumes. Many people worry that BDSM is a cover for domestic violence but in our case, if anything, it's made my husband even more respectful of my body. Over time it's become our couple hobby and let me tell you, it's a lot more entertaining than bird watching or binge-watching TV!</p>
<p>When the<span> </span><em>50 Shades of Grey</em><span> </span>books came out, and then the movies, the market exploded with new ideas and products-all of which we've been happy to test out.</p>
<p>That's not to say the whole thing has been smooth sailing. Most of our challenges revolve around logistics, specifically our kids. They're pretty young so if they were to walk in on us "playing" it could be very traumatic for them. We have good locks on the door and wait until they're asleep, but we are constantly having to reevaluate what works and what might be nightmare-inducing. Ideally, we'd have a "red room" like Christian and Ana. But sadly, we're not independently wealthy!</p>
<p>The hardest part has been keeping everything on the down-low. I have a lot of friends who complain about the spark missing in their sex lives and while I want to open up about our experience, I've learned over the years that I have to share very carefully. We've lost some good friends over it, so we're very selective now.</p>
<p>It's all worth it for us, though, as it's really helped our relationship grow outside of the bedroom too. To be successful in BDSM, you have to communicate<span> </span><em>a lot</em>. And while we thought we were good communicators before, we really weren't. BDSM has shown us how to be so much better about this. We frequently discuss our likes and dislikes and we have special codes and words we use with each other including a "safe" word. Once that code word is uttered, it's over. We might discuss why later, but a no from either of us is non-negotiable.</p>
<p>It's been a long process from that day when we were looking up divorce lawyers to now. While our sex life definitely wasn't the only thing we changed, BDSM has definitely made us stronger and happier together than we've ever been. And our sex life is<span> </span><em>never</em><span> </span>boring, which is not something many people who've been married as long as we have can say!</p>
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