~I have been taken advantage of in many way in life. Not to put the blame on others that abused me. I was pride filled at times too. Once I began to share what was going on.
The load got easiers. I didn't get better till I stop having a pity party for myself...I am not out of the woods but....Their are still good people in this world....We just have to find them.... And hold them dear... I just felt like sharing... 3 more burdens to go...I am working on them... In the mist of my pain and hurt...I dance and I still laugh......live and let live...
WOW!!! loved it.
I care more than I share from words, deeds or actions. I hope you find the inner strength to see yourself through this!
Remember: Owe no one anything, or do not feel obligated to another, if this seems right to you, as others are here to just help and not take ownership of your problems
Love and Light
~Not looking for empathy- I wanted to share how I was feelind last six years. So many people are hurting in different ways, for what every reasons.
We all go through something and at times, feel like were alone! Most time we get relief in the most unlikely place and threw people who we never execpt to help... Hugs n Kiss to my friends!
You are strong. Abuse is in the eye of the experiencer. Comprehend the abuser, his or her motivations, and compassion will put you in place where you don't blaim them for how you feel. You choose. You are free. No one chooses for you.
"Every abreaction either real, unconscious,or dreamed; makes the person stronger"
I've come from years of emotional and mental abuse. Always trying to placate everyone else, but never measuring up, or doing it right(from husband)I woke up one day and realized I needed to take care of me. I only have to do things good enough for ME! Not getting the emotional support from family members...I went looking elsewhere. I ended up on this wonderfully supportive site. I'm learning to ignore the negitive and slowly, very slowly climb out of my hole and into the light.(sorry, couldn't resist)I'm 54. If I can do this...anyone can. ((hugs))
Abuse is something that is very serious for me. Having suffered it myself for many years. It took great courage to finally pick myself back up from the ashes and find my way forward again. It took some courageous people to come to my aid. Many years of healing occurred and even today I still carry some of the emotional scars. But each day grows brighter.
For all of you suffering one form or another, there is always hope. If you can just dig deep down enough to find that it is within you. when you find you! after many years of being down trodden, stepped on when you find that spark within you. Hold it and let it guide you. For it is your flame and your spirit that can not be crushed or snuffed out.
Yes! Once again!!!!
Goodness... Sounds like you need to get in touch with your heart and find some peace... That hurt to read, sounded sad and a bit painful...
May I share some heartfelt inspiration... xoxox