Perhaps you could write a discussion on this and delve deeper into your beliefs. It would be interesting to read. Not all spiritual paths believe in a hell.
You really shouldn't judge peoples happiness, if it doesn't line up with yours. I don't beleive in hell, I'm a witch. Hell is purely a christian concept. We have Summerland. I am happy, and moderately well adjusted even if I am not aware of all the holy names. How do you judge a persons happiness? We don't go by the same standard. that would be like me saying, you can not be happy unless you are a witch. It really doesn't work like that. We are all different, we make different choices, and different things make us happy. I have an autistic daughter, she doesn't know all the god holy names....and guess what? She's happy, truly happy. You can't say well those example are different.....I try not to make blanket statements....
It`s okay if your a witch or that Big Friendly Giant, a movie I am watching. It`s very nice. It`s magical when it`s about a little girl Sophie and a friendly giant who is a vegetarian. This giant is a catcher of dreams & there are other giants bigger who eat children! To children who are tormented by giant-eating children is hell. Yet it`s an illusion. There is hell I know exists only in the mind. But when God is within you, a liberated spirit-soul can transform hell to heaven! To a witch, there is no hell but to a believer of Krishna/Christ hell exists.
When I was a child, I pray angel of God my guardian dear to whom has love commits me here. Ever this day be at my side to light and guide to rule and guard.Amen. It protected me from bad witches and demons. I slept well no nightmares.I pray, too. Your autistic child will always be happy & free from hell.