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Comment by Pan on December 5, 2022 at 4:43pm

The light won't hit me the way I wish it would.

It's always too soft or too gentle

Caressing my face and warming my skin from between clouds

Or hat covered lamps tipped in a respectful nod

But it won't strike me

Leave my face stinging and my mind stunned

It won't land itself across my cheeks

And make me stutter out truths I never intended to say

It won't blind and daze me with confusing need and want

So I sit here in front of the window silent

Begging, my legs crossed and my eyes closed

Waiting

For the light to hit me the way I wish it would.

Comment by Sirian Starlight on October 31, 2022 at 7:19pm

I'm very sorry to hear of her death. I hope she did not suffer long.

I would have liked to join that group :) Spirituality in terms of BDSM is a new one for me. But I can see how it would tie into a lot more than just an intimate attraction. And this isn't a view point often discussed, that I have noticed.

The best I can see me getting the closest to a spiritual fetish for me, would be a type of entity communion.

Comment by Linda M. on October 31, 2022 at 6:21pm

The original owner of this site, Leila Raven(she passed a few years ago)did the spirituality of BDSM, it was a group here.  After a while, it became inactive, and we deleted it.   BUT, the need was still here, so I decided to re-invent it, and give more latitude for diversity. 

     Personally, I don't think fetish is always about sex, or spirituality and sex.  That's just my opinion.  And then of course you get the purely spiritual fetish sculptures 

Comment by Sirian Starlight on October 31, 2022 at 4:19pm

I guess you could say I'm bound by the soul of freedom. Where ever it is strongest, and we are in most unity due to its influence, it guides me to be at peace through the sacrifice of imprisoning emptiness.

Comment by Pan on October 31, 2022 at 7:47am

I suppose that would depend on how you define "spirit" or "spirituality" for yourself. Some may argue that power exchange or energy exchange are also a spirit/spiritual exchange. There are also those who engage in various aspects of BDSM that center around spiritual objects or concepts such as worship for a general example, or rites of passage which include trials of pain and endurance as a potentially complex one. Then there are those like myself who feel that BDSM and Fetish embodies certain core values which one might hold as a kind of spiritual code for how to behave or live their lives. -shrug- Your self understanding and experiences are your own. No one else can determine it's validity but you. 

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Comment by jack black on October 31, 2022 at 3:54am

In casual conversation, the words fetish and kink are often tossed around interchangeably to mean any sexual desire or proclivity that falls outside the mainstream appetite ― like bondage ...but they are not the same

Comment by Sirian Starlight on October 31, 2022 at 3:11am

That does make sense. I had always envisioned it like a conscious dream of sorts. Since so many of my obsessions are based on if I lived in a perfect world with no barriers to achieve nirvana. I can see that fetishes are one step below the achievement of anything, a simple enough proof of concept that dreams are real. Even if they are experienced consciously. What are some of your favorites?

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